Timeline for apple list by grahamperrin

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Inaction is the gauntlet w/which you train hostility; after years of "being nice" & getting nowhere, I learned to not be nice & make a diff.

maymay

It's very easy to say "being nice will get you everywhere" when what you are saying, however nicely, won't get anyone but yourself anywhere.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish , maymay

And by "support requested," I did not mean: "make stupid tone arguments." Doing so [http://freze.it/1zC] will get you blocked & made fun of.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish

Since ignoring trolls is not effective, http://ur1.ca/dygva I present this !BDSM'er drive-by: http://goo.gl/cqXg2 Support requested. Thanks.

maymay

Camille Paglia, I'm a subject in @SocDocSN's !BDSM ethnography: http://goo.gl/Fvr4e Let's talk about: http://ur1.ca/dydt4 /cc @camillepaglia

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish , maymay

The single most helpful thing !BDSM groups can do to end #rape #culture is DISBAND IMMEDIATELY. You are a problem & you ought feel terrible.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish , maymay

Inherent to all defenses of !BDSM's #culture is the paternalistic idea ppl (esp bottoms) can't ourselves determine what #consent feels like.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish , maymay

Every !BDSM'er who supports the rape schools their subculture funds & promotes is ethically obligated to examine their internalized #domism.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish , maymay

The SINGLE and ONLY effective function of the !BDSM Scene & subculture is to reinscribe #domism & gaslight #consent concerns in its members.

maymay Leather, BDSM, and Fetish

!BDSM'ers are NOT a marginalized group: http://goo.gl/gL6Oh Anyone claiming otherwise is re-perpetrating oppression culture & ought GTFO.

maymay

In case you missed it (how‽) the photoset about #rape #culture I posted to Tumblr http://tmblr.co/Z4w0aylHCxt_ has 21,000+ notes & counting.

maymay

I was pitched 4 startup ideas this week, each w/fatally flawed premise. I should make my own startup. I could call it Critique As A Service.

maymay

Compromise is a weapon, diplomacy is a war tactic, diplomats are "good cops" to an army's "bad cops," and reformists are agent provocateurs.

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When $client asked, "Okay, then how do I check your work?" I said, "You hire someone else, and then you take their word for it." #capitalism

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As I said to $client, "No, you can't review that piece of work I did. If you could do that, you would not have hired me in the first place."

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Moreover, #capitalism tells bosses that they have the ability to review the work, rather than the apparent results of work, by subordinates.

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If you don't trust someone working for you, telling them what to do (like a boss) is insane. It makes you depend on someone you don't trust.

maymay

Hierarchically structured work relationships, as responses to distrust among workers, are an insane reaction to the problem being addressed.

maymay

"Constructive criticism" doesn't exist—demands for it are tone arguments. There's only criticism, with which one can do constructive things.

maymay maymay

War vets read some excerpts from the court hearings. There's a Q&A w/a @SaveBradley coordinator. My mom recognizes neighbors. We sing songs.